Tuesday, November 24, 2009

No Rewind Button

The one problem I continue to fast with myself is the ability to let go, for good! When things don't go right with certain people, particularly guys, I'll let them go for the moment, but I always seem to find one reason why I should give them another shot. Why do I do this?? Why do I always continue to go back to the one thing that use to hurt me. They say the same thing over and over again, "I've changed" or " I've realize how much I need you". It's the same old same old every time, and what do I do, I fall for it. Not this time. I let you go for a reason. It's time that I leave past things in the past. Stop rewinding and just push forward. Ladies, we always seem to have sympathy for the past, but it's just that, the past. Staying stuck in the past will only cripple you from enjoying what could be coming to you in the future. Ladies remember, If it isn't part of your present, there is no need in trying to bring it to your future.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

No Hard Feelings

When your so comfortable with someone, it's hard to let them go. The person you confide and rely on for your needs sometimes aren't always what's best for you at this moment in time. Instead of holding on to something that isn't there anymore, I rather just walk away from it. Walk away with no hate, no spite, no hard feelings...but instead with memories. Good times we had together, good times playing together, and good times just enjoying each others company. No one is to blame for this but time. Time to move on. Time to just explore something new. Life's too short to just be sitting there stuck. If it isn't going anywhere, move on. There is nothing wrong with still being cool and still hanging out, but the thought of you and me has disintegrated. There is no more. And I'm find with that. So thanks for the memories and the time we had, no hard feelings, it's just that time.