Welcome Back

So I've been gone from the blog world for a while but I think it's time I show an appearance once again. It's officially spring time and you know what that means....change. Change for the good and possibly the bad. Life has had it's up and and downs these past 2 months, but overall I'm still blessed beyond measure. I have an amazing family and friends who are always there for me regardless of the situation. I'm starting to become even more independent from my mom and I'm also learning how to do things for myself. I use to always value what other people said, which had a effect on me and my relationships as well. I realizing to do what I want to do, not what other people THINK I should do. If I'm happy, then I'm happy. If I'm over something, then I'm over it. I value the opinions of my friends, however, when it all comes down to it, its what Tamara wants to do. The question now is, what do I want to do??????

2010 Goals

Happy New Years!! It's a new year and instead of writing all these resolutions that I know will never get done, I rather set goals for myself this year...

1. Higher GPA- 3.4 was good last semester but I want to do better
2. Independence- I wanna become completely independent and take some of the load off my mother...it's time
3. Realistic- I want to stop always thinking of the bad and the good and just focus on what's real
4. Friendship- It's time that I distinguish between the friendship that I treasure and the one's that have no relevance anymore
5. Relationships- It's time that I figure out how comfortable I am with definition of "us" that has been create

These 5 main goals for the year is enough to keep me focus and busy. I kind of have an idea of how I want to go about thing, whether they fall into place is up to God and partially me. Only time can tell and of course I will keep you guys updated :-)