Tuesday, June 2, 2009

It's Just Emotions

I'm slowly realizing why I always have some many issues with guys I talk to...my emotions. I ALWAYS let my emotions get the best of me! Now some say it's because of my zodiac sign (I'm a Cancer :-) ), or it's because I'm a girl. I like to think that it's because it's me. I've always been told that I'm so emotional and I use to think that it's a bad thing, but I'm starting to accept it and be happy with it. God made me this way! He made me so that I'm compassionate and caring about others and their emotions. He created me to display how I feel without caring how other's felt. That's just me! Take or leave it! Some of my friends might think that it's annoying but hey, deal with it. My family has dealt with it for so long without saying anything about, so it can't be that bad. Plus I feel like sometimes people need to show more emotions. Is it my fault that people are too intimidated to show how they really fell?? If people did this more often, girls wouldn't be going around wondering how a guy feels, and guys don't have to keep trying to guess what's the problem. I think ever relationship needs a balance of emotions. How else do you show that you care about someone, just telling them?? That doesn't work for me, show me through your emotions! If your happy to be around me, show it! Smile, laugh, cry, frown...I don't care! I rather show me how you feel then me guess "well i think he miss me..." or "I think he likes me, he's talking to me right?" Emotions need to be shared people!! And if people have a problem with it, then it must be some bitterness they have towards it. Perhaps you've shown your emotions and got hurt in the end...that happens! I've been through it PLENTY of times!!

NOW I'm not saying right off the back show all the emotions you have for a person...because that just might scare the person off. But once you feel comfortable with that person, don't hesitate to show some emotions; whether it's being happy,sad, excited or jealous. It's better to know how someone feels then to walk around being oblivious to the whole thing!

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